Perhaps my greatest regret of my year in Berlin is that I never invested in German classes.
I started using Duolingo to learn German about a year before I moved to Berlin. I knew at some point Iâ€™d be living there, and I knew German was a terrifyingly difficult language to master.
(Itâ€™s beautiful, though. Donâ€™t let those YouTube videos fool you.)
Still, I thought I had a basic grasp of the language when I arrived. Then, during my first few days in Berlin, I stopped to ask a woman for directions. Instead of offering a â€œdanke!â€ after she struggled through English instructions, I offered a â€œbitte!â€ instead. (â€œPlease.â€ Iâ€™m cringing inside.)
Apps are good for a basic intro, I guess. A lot of the things I learned just didnâ€™t really work in everyday conversation. For example, die Katzen trinken Wasser translates to â€œthe cats drink waterâ€ and was a favoured phrase on Duolingo. Iâ€™ve never once used it in real conversation, even if I am a crazy cat lady. The only plus side is that I did internalize a lot of these sentence structures.
But no matter what, folks, youâ€™re not going to be become bilingual from a smartphone app.
Language learning has always been really hard for me, because as a Newfoundlander I can hardly even speak English. Iâ€™ve spent most of my life learning French, and even now Iâ€™m probably at a third grade level. Maybe less.
Speaking is the hardest for me. If someone starts mocking me, I am OUT of there. And, god bless the Germans, but theyâ€™re very blunt when you screw up their language. Not in a mean way, exactly, but sometimes theyâ€™re brutally honest and you have to pick your shattered ego up off the floor and piece it back together with superglue.
Berlin is also incredibly English, thanks to its large influx of migrants.
Maybe thatâ€™s why I started taking German lessons when I got back to Canada. I suddenly realized how badly I wanted to get back to Germany, and how Iâ€™d do so much better if I could actually speak German, and hindsight is 20/20, right?
St. Johnâ€™s doesnâ€™t have German classes outside the university, so I signed up for Lingoda instead. This was mostly because I could arrange private lessons or small group lessons around my own schedule, and also because the price is ridic cheap (about $130 for 10 small group classes and a private class, in the basic package). The program is also certifiable, meaning after so many classes you bump up to A1.1, etc.
I was crazy nervous for my first class, but Susann was my instructor and she was amazing. I chose a super easy lesson that I probably already mostly knew anyway, but actually talking out loud to someone while learning was pretty amazing. Susann was patient and she didnâ€™t laugh at me not once.
Since Iâ€™m a writer, I also hate not knowing WHY German grammar is the way it is. I need to know about structure, even if there are three different genders (feminine, masculine, and neuter). I still don’t really know why all nouns are capitalized (it seems like a pain in the butt). And although I pestered Susann endlessly with â€œbut WHY is it this way?â€ she always answered with the patience of a stoic German.
You can try the course with my discount code and get about $70 off your first month: Y128AQ
Another time, I was sitting on a train when a handsome stranger approached me and gave me his phone number and told me he would like to practice German and English â€œin tandemâ€ sometime. I didnâ€™t know what it meant at the time, but basically a tandem language exchange means meeting every now and then to have entire conversations in one language, and then the other. Personally it sounded excruciatingly awkward to me and I donâ€™t like most people so I avoided that option, too.
Alternative if youâ€™re too poor to even afford these classes: download every episode of Tatort, Germanyâ€™s crazily long-running crime drama, and follow along. Mindless TV all follows the same themes, so chances are youâ€™ll know the context. I once met a guy who learned English entirely from watching American sitcoms. Challenge accepted.